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We help meet the social needs of LGBTQ women of color by giving you a place to be yourself, and be appreciated for every part of who you are.
Our goal is to reduce the frustration of having to date the same women in the same circles, and of meeting women not available or willing to live their truth.
betruebu is not necessarily about you finding "the one,” but about giving you several opportunities to meet women who are proudly “out,” who can add to your quality of life through dating, or through newfound friendships.
with beautiful “out” women like YOU today!
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with beautiful “out” women like YOU today!
When I first conceptualized this site, it was because, as an African-American lesbian, I wasn't meeting the type of women I wanted, either in person or online.
As I began to research, I realized this issue was so much bigger than me.
On OKCupid for instance, African Americans are chosen just 13% of the time. Black LGBTQ women lacked an outlet: a comfortable, common “meeting place” where we could be ourselves, and make lasting connections.
I also noticed many women wanting relationships...but only “in secret.” While their reasons for secrecy are legitimate for them, in real life, that atmosphere often results in heartbreak. How can a relationship last...if the focus is on proving it doesn't exist?
Relationships are hard enough. Having them in the dark makes it harder. betruebu celebrates those of us that want to...
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